Bubble Friday!

Sam had his first Bubble Friday at playgroup today. He started to enjoy chasing them even more and after some inspiration from Andrew's popping bubbles, he had fun trying to catch them. I couldn't get a good picture, but I will next time.

Sharing is Caring

Sam is a wonderful child, but certainly is two years old! We're working a lot on how to share and how to speak without whining or crying. I've come up with some strategies to give him appropriate outlets for impulses he has ("Don't bite Mommy, bite your blankie" or "Don't push Andrew, push a pillow"). For the most part those outlets work and if I can manage it, making a game of something or being silly almost always works to divert his attention. To address the whining, I'm currently working on only "listening" to him when he uses a normal voice...but he hasn't figured it out too well so far. I guess it just takes time.

More independence

Sam still likes to hang around me as I work or play around the house, but he's slowly developing more independent tendencies. Today was free day at the Science museum and as he became accustomed to it, he ran around and explored on his own without a look back. He had fun with his friend Elias outside as they dropped leaves in a little stream and ran on grass. Sam was content to be even 30 feet away from me - a first for him and for me! I'll have to get used to the intricacies of keeping a careful watch from far away, especially since he's still sometimes unreliable with following directions.

Puzzle me this

Sam has figured out how to put fairly complex puzzles together with only a little direction from us!

Sam's 2 year stats

We just had Sam's 2 year doctor check up and these are his stats:
weight - 30 lb 1 oz, 75%
height - 36 in, 85%
head circumference - 50.5 cm, 90%

How do you explain...

...to your son that the scab on his hand is not "dirty" and can't be cleaned off? He got an owie yesterday that scabbed over and periodically he'll look at it and say "dirty" and cry. Now that's taking cleanliness a little too far...

-Christine

Newest phrases

This week Sam started saying "Andrew woke up" and "Andrew crying." He's also repeating other words left and right - too many to keep track of! I'm also pleased to see that he's starting to understand and use "Please" and "Thank you." There's also a fair bit of whining and crying that we're working on, but overall he's a really sweet little boy.

My shadow

Sam has been extra upset about my leaving recently and I was trying to decide if he was in a mommy clingy stage or not. Then I realized that while he often happily plays independently during the day, he's been doing it within 5 feet of me at almost all times. If I go downstairs to do laundry, he follows me down and plays down there. If I go in the bedroom to change Andrew's diaper, Sam picks up his toys and joins me a minute later. When I start to cook dinner, he sets up camp at the end of the kitchen and plays with spoons, spatulas, pots and napkins. He doesn't fuss about my leaving like he did when he was little, but there's some definite following action going on. So I suppose he is in a mommy clingy phase. 

Andrew teeth

Sam loves talking about our family and including everyone, whether it's pointing out in his toy cars where Daddy, Mommy, Andrew and Sam sit, doling out imaginary water cups or offering snack food. When we were brushing teeth the other day, he said Daddy should brush his teeth, and Mommy, and then he said Andrew should brush his teeth. It occurred to me that we had never informed Sam that Andrew didn't have teeth...why would he know that? So we had a discussion about babies not having teeth yet. :)

Brush those teeth!

Ruth got Sam to brush his teeth!

Chatterbox

The week after Christmas Sam said his first "sentence" with three words - "Apple juice please." Since then he has been more and more willing to put two or three words together at a time and has been echoing more new words each day. Not only does he repeat after me, but he breaks out words I didn't know he could say, like "dishwasher" and "rice cooker." He's such an observant little toddler and I delight in seeing all the knowledge he absorbs.

Stomach Flus are no fun

We spent a wonderful Christmas visiting family and friends in the Bay Area. Then two days after Christmas Sam came down with an awful stomach flu and was miserable for several days. It's taken a week and a half for him to return to his normal eating, drinking and sleeping habits - poor kid! I don't know that there's anything that can prepare you for parenting a sick child. It is sad, scary, tiring and frustrating all in one, but I think it's the feeling of helplessness that is hardest. Luckily only Christine also got the flu, Dave and Andrew were spared. We are quite happy to find Sam is back to his old self now.

Like a roller coaster

Some days staying home with a toddler is like riding a roller coaster because his moods change so often. There are times he's goofy and silly, times he's frustrated and inconsolable, times he's adorable and loving, times he's irrational and unruly and times he brings utter joy and love. That's okay, though, I'm along for the ride.

The Next Generation of Computer Hackers

Thanksgiving 2008

Just tap and say "Mama"

Sam has recently taken to running up to me and gently pushing/batting me with both of his hands. It's not very hard, but I don't want it to turn into hitting. I had a theory that maybe he was just doing it when he wanted my attention so I decided to teach him to tap me on the shoulder or leg with one finger to get my attention. When he came up to me as I was finishing dinner and pushed my leg with both hands, I took the opportunity to stop him and say that if he wanted my attention, he should say "Mama" and use one finger to tap me. I demonstrated this by saying "Mama" and tapping his shoulder gently with one finger. I went through this several times and it appeared he was starting to get it. He decided to repeat it back to me to show me he understood it. So he said "Mama" and gently with one finger tapped his own shoulder. Of course I meant for him to tap me like I was tapping him, but being the literal toddler he is, he thought he just needed to tap his own shoulder and say "Mama" to get my attention. Needless to say, Dave and I had a good laugh over that. :)

My burgeoning web programmer

Note how Sam has arranged the letters JSON in his blocks. Coincidence? I think not!

Too tight!

Sam was wearing Andrew's shirt - we thought it was just a little small....

Adjusting to brother

The most common question we get about Sam these days is: "How is he adjusting to being a big brother?" All in all, Sam is doing quite well. He likes to give Andrew kisses and give him his blanket or pacifier. He alerts us when the baby makes noises and says "uh oh" when Andrew loses his pacifier. He's learning the art of gentle one finger strokes of Andrew's hair and to leave the baby alone when he's sleeping or nursing. However, Sam is pushing up against boundaries more and I feel like I'm saying "No" much more often. He's reverted back to biting when he's excited, experimenting with standing on the arm of the couch, climbing the back of the couch and head-butting. Some of it is also his age and the excitement of having Grandma and Grandpa come visit. I try to be sure we have some good one-on-one time and that he knows sometimes the baby has to wait while I finish taking care of him. We'll see how things change as Andrew becomes more interactive and also demands more of my attention.
-Christine

All tucked in and tuckered out

Sam generally is very good as we are reading him books and getting him ready for bed, but after we put him in and say it's time to sleep, he usually lets out a cry and stands up. Now, he only lasts about 5 minutes and then quiets down. The other day Dave experimented with tucking Sam in under his blanket and it worked like a charm! No getting up and no crying. Was he just waiting all this time for us to figure out he likes to be tucked in? We don't know, but it seems to work so we're sticking with it.

Bursting Forth

Sam has started to try out all sorts of new words in the last month and even just this last week: yogurt, off, on, Andrew, carry, mine, grandma, train, plane, go, stool, please, thank you, hello, up, raisin, bib. Most are just one syllable renditions of the words...but still his communication skills are just growing by leaps and bounds.

Adjusting to baby brother

Sam is in an adjustment period right now, getting used to finally having the baby home (it's been 6 days) and learning what that's like. In some ways he's helpful and quite observant. He's always bringing me Andrew's pacifier when he finds it somewhere and says "Baby, baby." He also likes to bring Andrew his blanket and offers up his toy cell phone to him to talk on. He goes around labeling all the things that belong to baby (car seat, chair, bassinet, changing table) and alerts us whenever Andrew starts crying by shouting choruses of "Baby, baby." On the other side, he's testing out limits with Mom and often does things he knows he shouldn't just to get a reaction (climb up the end of the couch, stand on a chair, bite, head butt). He started experimenting with doing these behaviors while Mom is nursing, to see if she'll actually put baby down and stop Sam (answer is yes, she will, so don't think she's immobile). I'm trying to make sure to put in quality play time with him and he's getting lots of attention and outings with his grandparents as well. Luckily the baby is sleeping so much he doesn't require a lot of attention right now, so I can spend time focusing on Sam too. One thing that warms our heart is he's learning to say Andrew's name: "Ah-ew" and enjoys gently stroking his hair or foot (with one finger to ensure gentleness).

Ice! Cars!

A few weeks ago Sam bumped his head in a tumble down the stairs. He survived just fine (phew!), but I wanted to avoid a big goose egg between his eyebrows, so I told him we had to ice his owie. In order to sweeten the deal (normally icing lasts about 20 seconds with a toddler), I said we could watch the movie Cars while his forehead was being iced. I made it clear, though, that if the ice came off, the movie went off to. Well, we iced for 20 minutes! He was enthralled with the movie and decided anything was worth enduring to watch. This week he made me laugh because several times he's gotten small owies which are followed by a request for ice and then a request to watch Cars. Apparently he remembered the treat he got and is looking for opportunities to get it again. Too funny.

Banana Eating Machine

Ever see someone inhale a banana?

Now you can.

A strawberry?

One of Sam's favorite books now is "The Little Mouse, the Red Ripe Strawberry and the Big Hungry Bear." In it, a mouse picks a strawberry but is warned by the narrator that the big hungry bear might come eat it, so in the end they split it in two and both eat it all up before the bear can.

Another of his favorite books is called "You can do it, Sam" about a bear who delivers cakes to his neighbors all by himself. At the end, Sam and his mother share the extra cakes and it shows a picture of mice eating the crumbs. The other night we pointed to the mice in the book and asked Sam what they were eating. He sat and thought for a while and then said, "Strawberries?" A very thoughtful guess...after all, the only mouse we read about eats strawberries! We just thought that was very cute, but maybe you had to be there.

Trash Truck Man Daddy!

Sam's newest sentence is "Trash...Guck...Manh...Daddy." The translation: "This is trash, it goes in our bin then into the trash truck which has a man riding on the back and Daddy takes me out to look at it every week." Needless to say, you can tell that he's been enamored of the trash truck recently...

Mama mia!

So for a long time Sam has just been saying Daddy and not Mommy. He started saying Mum at one point and for whatever reason gave that up. At some point he started calling both Dave and me "Daddy" so I went on a "I'm not Daddy, I'm Mommy" kick - so he just didn't call me anything! Well, somewhere around the beginning of September he finally figured it out and called me "Mama." Now, it seems like every other word he says is Mama or Daddy...but it warms our hearts each time. He's such a cute kid and it is amazing to see him starting to try out and master different words.

Potty Training

So we haven't been pushing Sam to use a potty, but yesterday he misunderstood "bring me that pot (for cooking)" for bring me your potty. (He similarly brought me a stool today, when I asked him for a tool.)

Well, I asked him if he needed to use the potty and to my surprise he said yes. So I sat him on the potty and read him the "Wheels on the Bus" about 5 times and then "One Duck Stuck" and finally fed him Strawberries, Cheese and toast. After about 45 minutes, he went! I think it was a novelty thing though - today he went straight back to using his diaper. But it would be SO nice to only have one kid in diapers....

Dave

Stuck!

One of Sam's favorite words, starting around 18 months, was "Stuck"...or as he says it "Guck." He's proved to us just how useful this word can be as he applies it to a myriad of situations: his foot stuck in his pajamas, his head stuck in his shirt, the peanut butter stuck to his toast, a toy stuck under the couch, the buckle stuck closed, Sam stuck in a hug with Mama or Daddy, a sticker stuck to a shirt and my favorite - Mama's eyes stuck behind her glasses. With a vocabulary of about 30 words you'd think it'd be hard to get concepts across...but not if you have words like stuck! --Christine

Here's a current list of Sam's words at 21 months:
Adu = water
Guck = truck, duck, stuck
Buh = banana, blankie, bath
Cucker = cracker, Tucker (his favorite stuffed animal)
Gigger = Tigger (his second fav stuffed animal)
Ga ga = all done (accompanied by waving hands at end of meal)
Bapu = apple, diaper, Grandpa, Grandma, backwards
Dat = cat, light
Bupple = buckle, bubble
Ga = again, pillow
Daddy = daddy
Mama = mommy
Diddy = dirty
Chews = juice
Poh = spoon
Booka = fork
Ahs = ice
Geez = keys
Eel = wheel
Bap = button
Eye = eye
Oh oh = phone
Jews = shoes
Booko = book
Cah = car, avocado
Bwa = blocks
Bah = pillow, ball, sheep
Beh = bear
Bir = bird
Poor = door
Bye-bye = bye bye
Muh puh = more please
Baguh = bagel
Gack = quack (like a duck), squawk (like a bird)
Woof-woof = dog
Kickin = chicken
Bus = bus - he says it correctly!!!

Photos from this weekend

Here are a bunch of photos I took of Sam this weekend to give you an idea of what he's up to these days. He's also adding more and more words to his vocabulary (eel = wheel, bap = button, eye = eye, kickin = chicken, dat = light, chews = juice, geez = keys, oh oh = phone)


Sam and Mom on the aerial tram at the Zoo...he really did enjoy it despite the face he's making.

















Sam drawing with crayons at his table and smiling for a photo to send to Daddy.

















Sam drives home from church! At least he was happy until he accidentally honked the horn and scared himself.